Hershell Thad Cathey
Born: November 12, 1929, Anderson, S.C.
Father: William Brantley Cathey
Mother: Sallie Flower
Married: Betty Ann Williams
Children: Teresa (Terry) Ann Cathey (B. San Antonio, Texas)
Bruce Randall (Cotton) Cathey (B. Rantoul, Illinois)
Retired Master Sergeant USAF
Retired Computer Programmer and Specialist.
Active Church and Missions man.
Died August 14, 2006, Anderson S. C.
Burial: New Prospect Church, Anderson, S.C. 4:00 PM, August 16,2006.
Wriitten text by Reverend Stu Butler from Video Tribute at his Funeral on August 16, 2006.
Hershell Thad Cathey
1929-2006
“A life lived well”
On the one hand, this is a difficult moment.Difficult becaue of the reality of the situation. On the other hand it is an easy moment. Easy to celebrate a life well lived by Hershell Thad Cathey. A life well livedfor 76 years.
In these few moments that we have today, I would like to talk about a man Thad Cathey. Some called him Thad, some called him Dad, some called him D daddy. We all called him Christian.
Thad Cathey was a Christian Man.
He was the epitome dome of the word Christian, Christ like. He was a godly man. He was a blamesless man. Thad was around church growing up. He was a stone’s throw of this church building. He even married a fine Christian woman , Betty Ann. However, none of this made him a Christian…. Out in Texas, newly married and a young father of his first born Terri he knew that he had a responsibility. The greatest responsibility that anyone faces…. to surrender his life to the Lord. He made a decision….A decision to take Jesus as his personal Lord and Savior. That is how we know that he is in Heaven today.
A Family Man
Thad was a Family Man.
Thad and Betty celebrated their 50 wedding anniversary. Thad was definitely a family man. Perhaps the loss of his motherat a young age taught him early on to love and cherish each moment. A loving grandmother and stepmother helped him to be a loving family man. He loved and was loved by his extended family. His home was opened to family and he and Betty cared for extended family members on more than one occasion.
Thad Cathey will live on through his family. In his son, Cotton, we see Thad’s smile. In his daughter Terri, we see his gentle smile in his daughter Amanda, we see his missionary heart. In his grandson Brandon, we see his military service. In Betty we see Thad Cathey, because they are one, just as god ordained it to be.
A Mission’s Man
Near and dear to my heart, Thad was a missions man. Thad understood the great commission to go into all the world and preach the Gospel to all people. Thad served His Lord on sort term missionary to Spain, Puerto Rico, Idaho, West Virginia, Hurricane Hugo victims and Brazil. It was on a mission trip to Brazil that I ( the writer of this text) came to know Thad. At first he told me that he was not planning to go. Then he said that he thought his health would allow ti, and after all, he had his personal nurse Betty. What a blessing that trip was.
Tad had served others in a variety of ways, including Anderson Interfaith Ministries. Betty served for years on the missions committee of this church and we got Thad as a bonus member of that committee. He served the ministry of the Elisha House, bring food to work crews back in the beginning. I remember him delivering new beds there a couple of years ago in his old blue pickup. He was always helping out – he even provided to the Elisha House his special recipe to eliminate fire ants.
Master Sergeant Cathey was a Military Man.
Mr. Cathey served his country for 22 years in the United States Air Force. He protected and defended the land of the free and home of the brave. His service took him around the world to Tripoli, Korea, the Azores, Texas, Illinois, SC, and Georgia (the writer did not mention the Occupation of Japan or Lebanon).
A Church Man.
After becoming a Christian, he wasted no time in becoming an active member of a local church. Wherever their travels took them, Thad and Betty were always a part of a local church. When they returned to Anderson after serving in the Air Force, they came and planted their lives at New Prospect Church. Thad had taught 6th grade Sunday school for 16 years. That is worthy of a medal in and of itself. He encouraged his students to memorize Bible Verses and hide God’s Word in their heart. Thad and betty had served as youth choir sponsors and went on choir tours with youth. Thad served where needed, when he was needed. His love for photography and video inspired him to begin the video ministry of the Church. He led the efforts to build camera platforms in the auditorium and expand the video room to be able to broadcast on Cable *. Perhaps his finest talent was to touch the world with the gospel through the video ministry. Video tapes of the singing Christmas tree and special events have gone out all around Anderson County, the State and even to Germany, Brazil and other countries.
An Active Man.
Thad ran on two speeds, Drive and overdrive. There was no Park on his gearshift. He and Betty loved to be with friends. They traveled to all 50 states, went on two cruises and took motorcycle trips to the mountains. Thad knew how to have Fun. He took flying lessons and learned how to pilot a plane, went whitewater rafting, flew in a hot air balloon and many other adventures. All while wearing that big Cathey smile. He loved to work on his house and in his Yard. He had a green thumb and could plant a leaf and make it grow. He repaired things and refilled his own ink cartridges for his printer. He was on the worldwide web and sent encouraging email regularly.
A servant Man
Thad understood well the teaching of Jesus on being a servant. Jesus said that he came to serve and not be served. Jesus was Thad’s role model and that was what made Thad our hero. Thad never complained in his last days. He was always smiling always joyful. The glass was more than half full for Thad Cathey. He served behind the scenes: He never called attention to himself. He sometimes came to the chuch office as often as the staff.
Jesus said in John 4:34: My food is to do the will of him and finish his work, Thad finished his work.
He invested his time and talents, and treasure in eternal things and the Kingdom of God.
For this reason Thad Cathey lives. He lives eternally in heaven. He lives on in our hearts, in our memories and in our lives.
Now appropriately as a tribute to this great man we will view a video to help us relive some of the memories.
After the video the song amazing Grace was played by Bagpipes as the recessional moved from the Church to the Church Graveyard. The Sun was shining as the last words were spoken followed by Miltary rites by the American Legion and the marine Corps league.
The Reverend Tom Turner presided over the service with scripture and remarks. The music I Can only Imagine was sung with Amanda Miller and Lauren Parnell signing(sign Language)the music.
Dr. Tony Smith gave more scripture and remarks. Then Rev. Stu baker gave the eulogy of the above text.
The Pall Barriers were the video Crew: Ken Davies, Dennis Dempsy,dwanye Fennell, Ricky ray, Steve Stovall, Mickey Strawhorn.